Thursday, November 29, 2012

Day 29 of Thankfulness: keeping warm

Today, I'm thankful for the things that keep me warm. I'm thankful for working heat in our house and van. I'm thankful for clothes...especially warm things like hoodies and PJ pants (my favorite things to wear around the house). I'm thankful for socks and shoes, even though I would rather go barefoot! I'm thankful for warm blankets and bed to sleep in. And hot drinks to sip on during cold days. I would be thankful for a fireplace too, but I don't have one. And the fireplace DVD that mom has doesn't keep her warm.

Day 28 of Thankfulness: IWU friends

Today, I'm thankful for the friendships I made in college. I know I had classes to get a day free, but it was so much more! The first weekend in freshmen orientation I met my first friend John. I never imagined that we would remain lifelong friends & I would be good friends and housemates with his future wife my senior year. I loved spending time with them...whether to go out to eat, play games or dress up like Napoleon dynamite characters. Always a good time! We haven't seen each other many times since graduating, but I am still so happy to call them friends and to catch up when we can.

Another friend that God blessed me with is Lindsay. It still amazes me how we even met the first week of our freshmen year. I was a special education major and she was elementary education. We had some sort of education class together and both ended up in Reed computer lab working on it ever though we had computers of our own. After that, we were great friends. Lots of laughter, Disney movies and fazoli's. I couldn't have asked for a better friend in college! And even now, we maybe get to see each other 1 time a year, it never feels awkward and we pick back up where we left off.

I'm also thankful for my roommates. I had 3 different roommates during my time in college, but I feel a special roomie bond with them still. Thanks to Ruth, Andi and Kristy for putting up with me! Especially Ruth who put up with me for 2 different years!

There were so many other friendships made. I'm thankful that I had the chance to live in Reed Hall, work at the front desk, be on leadership, major in Social Work, go on mission trips, lead a youth Bible Study at church, and work at Beat the streets. The experiences and relationships I made at IWU really are priceless...even if I am still paying for my degree!

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Day 27 of Thankfulness: health

Today I'm thankful for my good health and the good health of my family. We have developed colds this week, but I'm thankful that is all that is wrong. There are many who can't afford to get colds because that could lead to serious issues.

I'm also thankful for my mom's advice as a nurse when we are sick. And I'm thankful for benedryl for me and baby Tylenol for Cora. And for orange juice. And definitely for sleep (especially when Cora can sleep all night in her room). And most importantly I'm thankful for the verse that reminds me that "this too shall pass".

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Day 26 of Thankfulness: My time in Ukraine

Today, I'm thankful for the call that God placed on my heart a few years ago to do mission work in Ukraine. Some may be tired of hearing about my time in Ukraine, but it's hard to forget about a life changing event. Never in my life have I had to rely more on God and trust His will as I did in Ukraine.  Never in my life have I lived so far away from all of my friends and family except when I lived in Ukraine. And never in my life have I had to learn a completely new language in order to make it to church or my apartment, get groceries or eat at McDonald's until I lived in Ukraine.

I'm so glad I trusted God to lead me and take care of me back when he placed mission work on my heart. As tough as it was to be so far away from friends and family in Ukraine, I am glad I went. It was a great experience where some lifelong friendships were made. The girls I worked with at Shepherd's Home have a special place in my heart. They were all beautiful ladies and I'm thankful I got to play a small role for a season of their lives.

Day 25 of thankfulness: Prayer

Today I'm thankful that I have faith that prayer works. I have seen so many answers to prayers in my lifetime. Some were what we were hoping for, but some were answers to prayer that were God's way of telling us that He's in control (and His way is ALWAYS better). There have been many answers to prayer in my own life. He has guided me in different directions in my life because I took the time to pray and seek His will.

I'm also so thankful for those people who have been great prayer warriors in my life. I'm so thankful to have praying friends who are willing to pray whenever I ask. I'm thankful for those people at church who come up to me randomly and tell me that they pray for my family on a daily basis. I'm thankful for parents who randomly wake up in the middle of the night because they felt like they should pray for me  or my family. I don't think I could face too many days without the prayer of others.

And I'm thankful for the chance to be prayer commissioner for Upward Basketball and Cheerleading this year. I believe the God is going to do great things through this ministry and I'm excited to take part in such a crucial aspect of this season.

I just found this quote and loved it:
Fight all your battles on your knees and you will win every time.

Day 24 of Thankfulness: Safety

Today I'm thankful for God's protection over myself and my family. We travel a lot back and forth to Cincinnati and other places. And thankfully we haven't had any big problems so far. I'm also thankful for our van that we were able to purchase this year. I'm thankful that we were able to purchase a very reliable vehicle and very spacious too.

I'm also thankful for safety just in general. I am a very, very clumsy person. A couple weeks ago, I randomly hit my head on our pantry door frame. I have no idea why. I find bruises on myself on a regular basis. I even fell down Clingman's Dome trail in the Smokey Mountains while holding Cora in our Ergo (definitely not my best moment). I'm thankful that even though I'm a very clumsy person, God has protected me (and Cora) from not getting hurt to seriously.

I'm so thankful that I know I have the greatest Protector around to watch over me and my family!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Day 23 of Thankfulness: Bryant

Today, I'm thankful that I was born in Bryant and lived there until I was 13. Today, I traveled with my parents and Cora to say good-bye to a very special man from Bryant Wesleyan Church-Glen Dale Shoemaker. He was like a grandpa to many and a pillar in the church. I'm so glad I got to go to the viewing today.

I'm also glad that we got to see a good number of people that have attended Bryant Wesleyan Church at one time or another. It was so special to visit with these people who have played roles in my life from a very early age and some who still play a role in my life through our connection on Facebook.

I'm so glad I had the chance to grow up in such a small town. The church people felt like family. And my school, even though it was a public school, often felt like a private (maybe even Christian, at times) school. My dad came in many times and participated in events and he was often called if the school knew of a family in need. And I developed some close relationships with some of the teachers and staff at the school. I could ride my bike around town and my parents didn't need to worry about my safety...especially since they knew pretty much all of the 300 people.

I also think the slow pace of life when we lived in Bryant helped me be able to learn the basics of being a Christian and what it means. This was when I first asked Christ in my life and was baptized at the age of 9.

As I was telling my dad today, I know I was young when I lived in Bryant, but as I think back to my time in Bryant, I only have happy memories. I'm thankful that I had the chance to grow up in a town like Bryant and have so many special people in my life at such a crucial time in my life.

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Day 22 of Thankfulness: Ice Cream

I know it's Thanksgiving and I should be all sentimental and everything, but I've already mentioned a lot of those things, so I wanted to think of something else!

Today, I'm thankful for Ice Cream! When I was younger and we would go to Dairy Queen, I used to just get french fries most of the time, but as much as I love my french fries, I still love my ice cream!

And ice cream has been a huge part of my life. My first real job was serving ice cream and I had some of the best times at the Cone. I met some very special people (including my second family-The Wren's) and I learned early on about a good work ethic. I worked there for many years and I'm so glad that I had that opportunity!

And tonight, I'm so excited that we got to finish up our Thanksgiving celebration with Blue Moo Cookie Dough ice cream from UDF. Besides the Cone ice cream, this is probably one of my next favorite, but we don't have UDFs near us. And my brother and I used get it quite often when we lived in Cincinnati and I also got Craig to really like it too!

So I'm thankful for the yummy goodness of ice cream! Even if I did sometimes come home from the Cone smelling like spoiled milk!

And I'm excited that Cora shares the love for ice cream too!


Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Day 21 of Thankfulness: Singing

Today, I'm thankful for singing. I've always loved music since I was a little girl and my parents sang to me and with me as I grew up. And I'm thankful they encouraged me to use my voice as an instrument for God. My brother also led by example by being in choir...I loved going to his performances. And I'm thankful that I get the opportunity to use my voice at church...even if I don't have the best rhythm. I'm thankful for the times on road trips when we would belt out LeAnn Rimes in the car...although I don't always think we were making such a joyful noise at those times.

And I'm also thankful that Cora has already grown up with songs that are sung to her daily about God. And she is already learning to sing songs with us. She has the most precious singing voice I have ever heard. She may not sing the actual words, but I believe God is pleased with her joyful noise.


Psalm 98:4

New International Version (NIV)
4 Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth,
    burst into jubilant song with music;


Day 20 of Thankfulness: Kisses and Hugs

Today, I'm thankful for hugs and kisses. My family always hugged and kissed growing up to show our love. And I'm glad. There's nothing better than a big tight hug.

And now, I'm thankful to have a husband and little girl who I can hug and kiss whenever I want. Cora is such a loving little girl. She kisses her Elmo, baby Jesus and his mama and dada (her veggie tales nativity), her dolls, and us...sometimes. Last night, she was so precious before bedtime. This is usually the time when she is most loving. She gave kisses back and forth to me and Craig for a few minutes. And her hugs are the best. I love it when she gets a death grip around my neck.

I'm thankful for the hugs and kisses I receive as well as give to my husband and baby girl.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Day 19 of Thankfulness: Laughter

Today, I am thankful for laughter. Laughter really is the best medicine in our family. I'm thankful I grew up in a family where we could usually find humor in some of hardest times. And I'm thankful that I married a man who loves to make me laugh and who laughs with me as well.

When I was pregnant, I had several instances where I would just laugh and laugh for a long time...for no reason. It was so hard for me to stop laughing...and of course those times became contagious and others around me would start laughing with/at me. I think it must've been Cora being silly inside my belly, because ever since then she has brought into our lives a new laughter.

Her laugh is so adorable. And if we laugh, she laughs with us. When she gets excited, she usually laughs. When she sees something funny, she usually laughs. She laughs a ton when playing with her daddy in the evenings. And we usually have some good laughs each day. A couple of weeks ago, she would laugh so hard that she would fall down on the floor and put her head down.  I love to make her laugh when she's in the shopping cart at a store and we are waiting in a line. I would much rather her laugh than cry & scream!

I am thankful that we can take the time to smile and laugh everyday.


Ecclesiastes 3:22

22 So I saw that there is nothing better for people than to be happy in their work. That is why we are here! No one will bring us back from death to enjoy life after we die.



Sunday, November 18, 2012

Day 18 of Thankfulness: Church family

Today, I am thankful that even though we have always been far away from most of my extended family, God has always given us a Church Family to be there.  The bond in Christ is something powerful that can't be broken.  Whether I was in Bryant, West Chester, Marion or now Evansville. God has provided loving people.

I'm specifically thankful for NPWC today. I've already written about the teens and how much they mean to me, but now I want to talk about the rest of the church. It's amazing to see how different the church is now from when we first came here. I'm not saying that my family did this turn around, but I know God has been working hard in the lives of the people here.

When we first moved here right after I graduated from college, Phil and I were in awkward times in our lives where we were graduated and didn't have families of our own yet. So it was hard to find friends and relate to people. Now almost 7 + years later, I'm so thankful for the friendships that I have made with a few of the ladies in the church over the last few years. They have been encouragers, prayer partners and advice givers.

And I'm thankful that we took the summer to discover a vison for NPWC. It seems like we are finally on track and excited about where things are going! God is doing great things! There's been hard times in the last 7 years, but God has brought our church through them and stronger in the end.

Today, as I prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving with my church family, I can't help but think that I am so blessed with the people of NPWC. I'm excited for our fellowship time over good food today!



Saturday, November 17, 2012

Day 17 of Thankfulness: Traditions

Today I'm thankful for traditions. I know that as Craig and I grow our family that we will develop our own little traditions, but I'm thankful for ones that can remain (at least for now) from our own families.

A couple of Christmas traditions that I have with my mom are making/decorating Christmas cookies and going to a craft show. Today we let Cora join in to decorate a few of the cookies (or eat them) and in a couple weeks she will join us for the craft show.

Another tradition is that mom decorates way early for Christmas and loves to go out for the holiday season. I have apparently picked this up since I finished our Christmas tree a week ago.

For Christmas, my mom usually worked on Christmas day, so we would celebrate our family Christmas after Communion was finished at the church on Christmas Eve. We'd eat pizza, read the Christmas story, sing songs and then open presents. And I'm glad, that even if we don't celebrate Christmas or Christmas Eve on those actual days with my parents, we still try to have our pizza before we open presents!

And I'm thankful for the traditions of big family get togethers that Craig's family has. It took me a while to get used to those traditions since we've never really had many family get togethers with all my aunts and uncles. It's so much fun to have each side crowd in a house and catch up. I'm thankful Cora will grow up with these family get-togethers and knowing all her cousins.

And we've started one tradition with Cora...Craig wants to try to make gingerbread cookies each year with her. We made them last year at his mom and dad's house. She wasn't old enough to do anything last year, but I have a feeling she'll love being a part of the mess this year.

So to all the old and new traditions, I welcome them to this holiday season!

Day 16 of Thankfulness: Sleep

Today, I am thankful for sleep. I know when I was younger, I used to struggle to fall asleep during nap time. I didn't want to slow down...kinda like my daughter now. But I quickly realized how awesome sleep was. I loved to sleep in on Saturday mornings. I usually loved going to bed at night. And nap time  became a daily activity in college.

But now that I am a mom, I value the sleep I get so much more. Cora's always been a pretty good sleeper...except when she's teething, sick or having nightmares. She would usually only wake up once or twice as a baby to be nursed. Now she usually goes to sleep between 7:30 & 8:30 and sleeps about 12 hours. Plus she still naps at least one time, sometimes twice a day for a couple hours. I love spending time with her when she's awake since she's such an awesome kid, but I also LOVE when she sleeps too. I can get things accomplished and sometimes take a short nap myself. I love that Craig and I have a good 4 hours or so to spend alone in the evenings after she goes to sleep. Although, there are some nights where I'm just so exhausted that I'm asleep way sooner than I expected to be! I also no longer get to sleep in. That was actually something I gave up when I was pregnant. It is kinda hard to sleep in when you got a little body poking on your bladder all night. But the lack of sleep is worth the chance to be a mommy.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Day 15 of Thankfulness: Being a Thirty-One Independent Consultant

Today, I'm thankful that I took the leap a year ago in August to sign up to be an Independent Consultant for Thirty-One. I had no clue what I was really getting myself into, but I knew I liked bags/purses and thought it'd be a nice thing to do to make a little extra money.

It turns out that my Thirty-One business has blessed me in so many ways!

By selling 31, I have been able to remain a stay at home mom. Even if I wasn't selling it, I'd still be a stay at home mom, but this opportunity has provided us with a little extra income. And honestly, at first, I wasn't really in it to make much money, but it seems like for some reason...in the last 2 or 3 months or so, my business has picked up. Definitely a God thing, especially because it was around the same time that I had been a bit discouraged with a slow business!

Also, by being a consultant, I have been able to meet new people and get closer to some of the ladies in my church. It gives me a chance to have some girl time, which I've been in desperate need of lately!

And now, I'm a tad more organized than I previously have been. Although, now I need to get organized with all my 31 products!

I'm so glad I am a consultant for a company who celebrates women and our accomplishments. I'm glad I am a part of a company who was named from Proverbs 31.


Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Day 14 of Thankfulness: Honorary Grandparents

Today, I am thankful that I had some great honorary grandparents growing up since my own grandparents lived at least an hour away and my grandparents passed away when I was younger.  God provided me with many great, loving honorary grandparents in Bryant. He knew we'd need that little extra love and attention and He gave it!

The first couple that comes to mind that had a special part in my life was Bob and Reba Bailey. I was very young when Reba passed away, but I remember her a bit and from the stories I've heard, she thought I was pretty special. I still have a Strawberry Shortcake quilt that I love that her daughter made for me. Bob was my go-to guy for hugs and gum every Sunday. He later married Jean and she was always sweet and special too. He passed away before we moved from Bryant.

Another couple was June and Alfred Grogg. June babysat me, Traci and her granddaughter Jamie (we were all around 4 or 5) at the same time for a little bit. I can't even imagine the handful that we were back then, but she loved us anyway. I remember hating naptime there and it was always hard for me to settle down. I loved going to their farmhouse! There were always fun toys (leftover from her own kids) and we never knew what we were going to eat around their family. I tried cow's tongue there and many other animals. For my 3rd grade birthday party, I had all the girls over from my grade (except for the Amish girls), we dressed up and put make up on and walked to their house (they had moved downtown at this point). Even though they had 12 kids of their own and lots of grandkids, there was always room for my family.

Another couple was GlenDale & Mabel Shoemaker. Such sweet people. This is the only couple that are still living. When I was a little girl, I would go over to Mabel during church and play with her blood vessels on her hand. She just sat and smiled. They are always so loving and welcoming. Even when I went back to Bryant a few years ago to speak, they let me spend the night at their farmhouse and cooked great meals for me. They were my honorary grandparents at my wedding since my real ones have all passed away. It meant so much to me to have them there.



The last one that I need to mention is Ruby. She came into my life a few years later then the others, but her impact was just as much as the others who had known me since I was born. I was probably about 10 or so when I first met her. Her husband was a patient in the Alzheimer's Unit that my mom was in charge of at the time. I would often visit the patients when my mom was working and that's when I met Ruby. She started going to our church and then she would take me out to eat on the Sundays my mom worked and let me go with her to the nursing home. I would visit with the patients until my mom was ready to go home for the day. She also had grandchildren, but still made time for me.



These people hold a special place in my heart and I'm thankful that I had the chance to be loved and show them love. I'm thankful for my honorary grandparents.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Day 13 of Thankfulness: Financial Stability

Today, I am thankful for financial stability. I don't say this to brag because I know there are plenty of others who are not in the same boat as us. I say this to testify about how good God has been to us. I truly feel that we have been blessed when it comes to finances and I believe a big reason that this has happened is because Craig and I made the commitment when we were first married that we would tithe 10 percent. It is God's money after all.

We are definitely not rich at all, but we do try to live within our means. The first year of marriage, we rented a home instead of buying one right away so we could have some savings first for a down payment. And after a year, we were blessed to find our home. We've had a truck and boat and sold a truck and boat this year! And because of this, we were able to purchase our used van without a loan. Unfortunately for Craig, he did inherit my college loan debt...that we are still paying off.

I am so thankful for my husband who likes to be conservative with our money. I'm thankful he isn't one to jump at making choices about how to spend it. We typically spend a lot of time researching and comparing the bigger purchases. It makes life a lot better to be married to someone who wants to be financially responsible and not have a huge debt because we feel the need to have the latest gadgets. We still have one of the cheapest phones available from AT&T, but that's ok!

So today, I'm thankful that we have been faithful to God and giving back to Him because He deserves it. We on the other hand, don't deserve His blessings, but He has also been faithful to us. He has blessed us beyond what we could imagine for our lives.

Monday, November 12, 2012

Day 12: Those crazy teens

Today, I am thankful for the chance to be the youth director to some awesome teens! It was definitely a God thing when I felt God leading me to do youth ministry. I had no clue why He wanted me to work with teens at a church when I had a degree in Social Work. I also had no clue where I would end up. But of course, God worked it out in such a perfect way (as if His way could be anything less than perfect...it can't). Craig and I ended up in Evansville, IN after we were married and I have this awesome opportunity to minister to a great group of teens.

It's not always easy...there are some nights when I get home, Craig asks me if I'm sure I'm doing the right thing. But I always know that I'm just where I'm supposed to be. I didn't go to IWU to become a youth pastor, so I know that my lessons are not the 3 point sermons they could be. But my dad has said from the beginning that the relationships and time I spend with them is some of the best ministry I could do. Witness of WITH-NESS. And thinking about it, my favorite memories of youth group weren't a particular lesson, game or youth meeting. It was those times when the youth leaders and young adults just spent time with me. It was when they would take me to the movies, have me over to make things at their house or just spend time talking to me. I think it's also important to be there for them and be an example of a good Christian marriage (which a lot of them don't see anymore). And can I just say, I have the best husband? I think at first, he had no clue what he was getting himself into, but he has done an awesome job and loves those teens! He particularly loves playing wii and doing stupid stunts with the boys.

And the teens are just awesome. Some are full of energy. Some are quirky. Some are quiet. Some are loud. But they make up an awesome group called 1 M1LL1ON and I hope they know they are loved.

 Oh! And I also realized, I really haven't taken pictures in a long time...especially in our awesome new youth room, so that is now next on my agenda!


Sunday, November 11, 2012

Day 11 of Thankfulness: The defenders of our freedom

Today, I'm thankful for our Veterans. Sundays are busy days for me and today was no exception. I remembered on the way to church that today was Veterans Day and I started thinking then about what I wanted this post to be about. I read many facebook posts today about our Veterans and I agree with everything everyone posted, so I kept wondering all day if I should just post about something else today and not even try to put into words how I feel about the Veterans, but I knew that wasn't an option. I wanted to honor the people who deserve to be honored.

In Worship Service this morning, my dad preached about the persecuted church. He talked about how we are very lucky that we don't face the persecution like many do in other countries, but that doesn't mean it couldn't still happen. To tie it in, I thought more about how thankful we live in a country where we don't really need to worry about persecution, not because we are a special nation, but because we have some awesome men and women who are defending our country to give us these freedoms. We so often take for granted these freedoms...the freedom to worship in public, the freedom to vote, the freedom to stand up for what we believe in. I know these freedoms don't come without a cost...the cost of lives.

I have had the privilege to know many Veterans in my lifetime. I used to just think of Veterans as old men who served in wars so long ago, but it has become so much more a reality as I see some of my former classmates and friends serve our country. Two Veterans that stick out to me are my Uncle Leland and Craig's Grandpa. I'm thankful that I had the chance to know Uncle Leland for about 25 years. He was a great man. And I'm so thankful I still get the chance to hear more stories from Craig's Grandpa Schulte.

I don't have a picture of just my Uncle Leland, so here is a picture of him with my dad, their sisters and my grandma before both my grandma and uncle passed away.

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Day 10 of Thankfulness: Great Heritage

I know I repeat a lot of these things that I'm thankful for each year, but it's hard not to repeat these good ones!

Today, I'm thankful for a great heritage for myself and Craig. Unfortunately between the two of us, 6 out of 8 of our grandparents have passed away, but that doesn't mean they didn't have an impact on us!
All of them raised their kids right, who in turn raised us right. They loved the Lord and loved others.

I'm so thankful for the couple years in college that I had the chance to get closer to my Grandma Boardman. She had the best attitude about being in the nursing home and she loved spending time with others. I loved being able to do volunteer work at the nursing home and spend extra time with her before she passed away during my sophomore year of college. I know I will always cherish that time with her.

My Grandpa Boardman was the first of my grandparents to pass away. I was in the 4th grade. Since we lived over an hour away, I don't have as many memories of him as some of my other cousins do. I remember that he used to tell us that M&Ms were medicine.


My Grandpa Phillips was such a great guy. He was so friendly and loved spending time with others. I loved going up to Michigan to their farm house. I also remember that he used to pretend my legs were a train. I now do that with Cora. He also passed away when I was in 4th grade.



My Grandma Phillips was such a prayer warrior. She cared deeply about people and their faith. She also loved playing the piano and singing. We would often sing around her piano when we would visit. I sing many of those songs with Cora now. She passed away my senior year of high school, but that time was also when my cousin, Andrea and I got really close. Yesterday would've been my Grandma Phillips' birthday.

I never got the chance to meet Craig's Grandma Margaret. She passed away within a month of when we started dating. I know that she was a very sweet woman and a very talented artist. I'm so glad we were able to get a couple of her paintings to hang around our house. Cora will grow up looking at her great grandma's paintings.

Craig's Grandpa Melvin passed away about 2 weeks before Cora was born. I'm so sad that Cora never got to meet him because he would've loved holding another great grand daughter. Melvin was a great man and always made me feel welcome at the family gatherings. He also loved his little dog. And I later learned that he raised donkeys for a while.

Such sweet people and I'm sad they have passed and that Cora will never get to know them personally. But I am so thankful that right now, she does have 2 awesome great-grandparents still living.

Craig's Grandma and Grandpa Schulte are such fun people! I love hearing about Grandpa Schulte's plane stories and also about the war. He also farmed and they raised lots of kids! Grandma Schulte is a riot! I love visiting her! She is so sweet and giving (she has tons of goodies to give away in her closet). A few years ago, Craig's little sister, Caitlin and I wanted to go out in the golf cart on their property. His  grandma wanted to go with us. I can't remember if it was his grandma or Caitlin that was driving, but we got stuck in the mud. She was so upset because she didn't want her sons to come get us out and go on and on about it to her. They did finally get us out, but it was one of my favorite times with his grandma.

I'm so thankful for this heritage that Craig and I both come from. Not many in this day and age can say that their parents and grandparents never divorced and were strong in their faith. But both of us can and I am thankful.

Friday, November 9, 2012

Day 9 Thankfulness: Cereal

Today, I'm thankful for cereal. No, really I am. I love cereal. I don't like to have 1 or 2 boxes around...I like a variety of cereals, so I typically have at least 5 or 6 (or more) cereals available to choose from. I will usually eat cereal in the morning and for an evening snack. There are some days that I would even rather have it for lunch or supper instead of the food I cooked.

In the last few years, I've tried to get fiber cereals to eat in the morning time. So those are my "healthier" cereals such as Raisin Bran and Chocolate Frosted Mini Wheats. But at night, I love anything...Cinnamon Toast Crunch, Cocoa Puffs, Fruity Pebbles, Honey Nut Cheerios and the list goes on...

When I was in Ukraine, I cooked at times, but I loved having cereal for meals too. My dad said he wasn't worried about me having food to eat in Ukraine, since I could live off of cereal in Ukraine or the US.

When I was little, they had a Nerds Cereal. My brother and I loved it. I wish it was still around. It was the best.

So today, I'm thankful for cereal. The fiber kinds, the chocolate kinds, the sugar and sweet kinds. I am glad I am able to have lots of boxes of it in our cupboard. And I'm happy that I can write a whole post about cereal!


Thursday, November 8, 2012

Day 8 of Thankfulness: My second families

Today I'm thankful for those friends who became closer than just friends. These friends opened up their homes and their lives to me and have blessed me in many ways.

The first family to do this was the Betz family. Traci and I were best friends before Kindergarten and we were always together. There are very few memories without Traci from my childhood. We had so many sleepovers, McDonald's toy wars on my daybed, walks through the muddy field to get to the gas station for candy and talked about our crushes on a daily basis. But not only were we close friends, her family was like a second family to me. Her parents treated me like another daughter and loved me.




There were a few other older couples from Bryant who treated me like family, but I think I'll save that post for another day.

Another family to do this was Jim & Jeanette Downey. A couple months ago, I posted how everyone should have a Jeanette in their lives. Jim & Jeanette are so very special to me. They helped this awkward teen through so much just by listening and spending time with me. I have no clue how my teen years may have turned out if I didn't have them to turn to during that time.




Another family that became a second family to me was the Mayne family. Becca was a few years younger than me, but was one of my best friends in West Chester during High School. We loved shopping and talking about boys, but we spent a lot of time at each others houses and the Maynes welcomed me, fed me and loved me.




Another family is the Wren family. Oh, where to start with this family? I first met Keith Wren (and Tabby) during my interview at the Cone. I think I was 15 at the time. I had no clue how this summer job would turn into lifetime friendships. Keith and his dad relentlessly teased me everyday during every summer. I babysat for Tabby one time when she was young and refused to watch her ever again since she told her parents I was smoking (which I was not) and she was CRAZY! I did babysit for Keith's little nephew on a regular basis. I worked there all through high school. Then through college. Then I moved away to Evansville, so it was no longer an option to work there on a daily basis. But I did get to work a few days every once in a while if I came back to visit. Then after I got back from Ukraine and asked Keith if I could possibly come back to work there until I found a full time job, his family went above and beyond. They offered me the job (with some additional responsibilities) and a place to live at their home. Their generosity moved me so much! I loved living with them, even Tabby who was no longer as crazy and made no more lies about me. I loved having her as a little sister to take shopping and spend time together! Of course, when you live with the Wren's, you never know what you are going to get. The first night I pulled my covers down in bed, the left me a lovely surprise :) We'll just leave it at that!





One last person I want to mention is my buddy, Sung. We met way back in 10th grade and have been great friends ever since. We've stuck together through some rough times, but I'm so glad I've had his encouragement and he's had mine. He's like the Korean brother I never had!




So today, I'm thankful for those friendships and relationships. These people didn't have to invest in my life or stick with me, but they did. A good, true friend is so valuable and precious. Thank you for investing in my life!

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Day 7 of Thankfulness: Craig's family

Today, I'm thankful for Craig's family. I have a great mother-in-law and father-in-law-Cindy and Rick, who have raised great children to love the Lord, have great work ethic and to make good decisions. I am thankful for the way they raised Craig (although I still think he could've learned to do a little more cleaning and cooking-haha).

I'm also thankful for Craig's sisters who are now my sisters-Carrie, Colleen and Caitlin. I never had sisters growing up, so when I married Craig, I automatically had 3 (and now I have 4 since Phil is married). Craig's sisters have always made me feel loved and accepted into their family. I'm also thankful for my brother-in-law, Jake. He's always willing to help out and lend a hand.

And of course, I'm thankful for my 2 little handsome nephews-Max and Wes. They are so special and I love to spend time with them (which is never enough). I'm so glad Cora has 2 cousins around her age to grow up with.

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Day 6 of Thankfulness: Freedoms and Rights

Today, I'm thankful for freedoms and rights that we have in USA. We have freedom of speech and religion. We thankfully don't have the restrictions that many countries have. And through these freedoms, we are also given rights. One of these rights, I get to put to use today. I have the right to vote.  Not only is it my responsibility, but I am thankful that I CAN do this today. Many countries do not get this choice to elect the leader that they feel is fit for the job. And I'm so thankful for the many men and women who have fought for these freedoms and rights that I have today. Praying for our leaders and our  country.


But on that note, I must express, I had a hard time settling down last night. I'm not sure if all agree, but I really feel our country is struggling. I can see signs of the end times and it's sad and scary. Every year, our country goes further and further away from the ONE our country was built on. I am worried for the future of our country for Cora. I don't want her to face the way this country is heading! I'm nervous of the outcome of today's election, because people are becoming unpredictable. I don't know how some may re-act. This will be the 3rd election that I can vote in and I have never felt so much burden for our country or the need to cast my vote. It's sad to me that neither candidate is a follower of Christ. But I am thankful, that whoever does get elected, that I still have a Savior, who is still KING. He rules in my life and in the lives of others.




Monday, November 5, 2012

Day 5 of Thankfulness: Phil and Kristy

Today, I'm thankful for my only brother, Phil. He's 5 &1/2 years older than me and I think I've always looked up to him. He's always been there (even countries away) to help me talk through things and give some great advice. He's been a great support to me and an awesome example of Christ. I am so glad we have so many fun memories from family vacations, his swing choir experiences (even when I would study his yearbooks and know all his friends-haha), and just life in general. I'm thankful that even though I was much younger and probably annoyed him, he still let me be a part of his life. I really think he helped instill in me the love of music, movies and missions (of course my parents did too). I am also so glad that now he has an awesome wife to share life with in the Czech Republic. We love Kristy and are so glad she's a part of our weird, close-knit family!

I'm so thankful God blessed me with the best brother, Nilly!



Sunday, November 4, 2012

Day 4 of Thankfulness: my parents

Today, I am thankful for my parents. They have been great examples through the years of Christ's love, marriage, and sacrifice. They have been there for me through the good and bad and have loved me always. I appreciate that they showed Phil and I that we were their first congregation of ministry. They are some of my best friends and I'm so lucky to have such great parents!

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Day 3 of Thankfulness: My little Corabug

Today, I am thankful for my little sunshine-Cora Marie Schulte. If you had asked me 5 years ago, I would've never imagined the joy that I have now that I am a mom. I never would've thought then that I would want and enjoy being a stay at home mom, but I love it!

As any mom, I love to talk about my little girl...so here it goes. She is obsessed with Elmo. She even calls Mickey and Minnie..Elmo! We ask her a question and it's Elmo! Turn on the TV and she requests Elmo. So cute. She loves hair bows, her dressy black shoes and hats. She's already a little diva. She's tiny for her age. People can't believe someone so little is walking so well...yep she's petite, but eats like crazy and has more energy than someone that small should have. She loves sweets. She never turns down ice cream, candy or cookies. She loves when daddy makes chocolate milk to share with her.  She is rarely still, but every once in a while she will give the best kisses, hugs and cuddles. Those are the best. She loves bath time and splashing. She usually doesn't want to get out. She's a jabberbox (she may get this from me). She talks a ton and we can't understand everything, but she's already starting small sentences. We have heard "Get up",  "I want mommy" and "All done".  She knows where her hair, toes, fingers, tongue, nose, eyes, ears, mouth, teeth and belly are. She also knows the sounds to a cow, monkey, dog, duck and sheep. She loves her Elmo Bubble Book. And I love hearing her try to read it. She now says Bible and loves to read it. She is already a little mommy. She hugs and kisses her dolls and puts them night night. She also tries to help me around the house with laundry, sweeping and taking out the trash.  She loves to dance and to sing. I love hearing her sing...it's one of the sweetest sounds. I often turn down the radio just to listen to her sing songs about Jesus. She is such a sweet and good natured kid. We do have some rough days, but the good far outweigh the bad!

 I am so thankful God has entrusted us with Cora. God has definitely blessed us in big ways in the last 16+ months!


Friday, November 2, 2012

Day 2 of Thankfulness: My best friend, my husband

Today, I'm thankful for my best friend, husband and daddy to our little girl. Thankfully, Craig is all 3 of these! Craig works super hard everyday to provide a good home, food and anything else we want/need. He makes it possible that I can stay home with Cora. I'm so thankful for a hard working, dedicated husband. He's pretty smart too!

And it's so great to see Cora's face light up in the evenings when Craig comes through the door. She loves her daddy so much! He knows just how to make her smile...whether he jumps around or gives her ice cream! I love to watch them play together!

So today I'm thankful that I connected with Craig back in 2007 through AIM, Myspace and Facebook to get to know him more. I had no idea then that I had met the man I will spend my life with. We've been through a lot in the 5 years we've been together, but with God in the center of our lives, we've come out stronger!

Love you Craig!

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Day 1 of Thankfulness: Holy Trinity

Through the month of November, I like to take time each day and write what I'm thankful for. I admit that I don't do this enough and I really enjoy taking time to think about these things. They won't be in a particular order, but just what God lays on my heart for the day.
Today, on November 1, I am thankful for how the Holy Spirit leads and the peace I receive from following. I have been a Christian since I was young, but I didn't always know what it meant to "Be still and listen" to God. And I still don't always do it when I should, but I can think of specific moments in my life that I did and those moments have forever changed me.
I'm thankful that God leads in my life and His way is the right way...even when I don't see it. I'm thankful that even when there are closed doors, God grants a peace that I will never comprehend.
He's real. He's in my life. And it has made a difference.